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Kenya

You got colder but the flames in your eyes seemed to tell a different story.





Kenya

I seem to appreciate things (including people) from afar. Once close, it's a different story.





Kenya

I wish my parent's had taught me how to let go. I wish they had taught me not to let everything I love consume me because now I am left empty and without reason to believe that anything can be real enough to stay in my life.





PoliNeer

On the outside, I'm so happy, beautiful and have a sense of direction. On the inside, I'm quarter-to-depressed. Eish mxm. 😢





Jennii

Guess what I bought on Black Friday? A Sims 4 expansion pack, Outdoor Retreat 😁





John_Doe

I feel like my life is going up in flames and there is nothing I can do to escape the fire. I feel trapped. 





PoliNeer

When he said, " Ndiya vuya ukuk'bona". I just melted...yhuuuu





Classic Man

As of today I have successfully completed my Honors degree!!!!!!!!!!😌😎😎😎😎





Jennii

I am learning everyday to allow the space between where I want to be and where I am to inspire me and not terrify me.





Velvet

I wonder why iPhone chargers are not called Apple juice🤔😂





Campus misfit

I get tons of compliments online but rarely irl





Jennii

Going out tonight. Not feeling girly, so I'm wearing a plain tee with sneakers and tights. But I painted my nails pink today (it was way pinker on my nails than I thought it would be).





😚Kiss😚

Chubby girls are the best. No contest here. Game won lol. 





Lil'One

I dont care what academics have to say. My mind is on December..





Rori

Feeling emotional and I don't know why😢  Exam anxiety on💯





Lil'One

I fear that I'll die alone. I fear that I'll die unacomplished. I fear that I'll die unfulfilled. I fear that I'll die. I fear.





Classic Man

If there is something I absolutely cannot stand is being disrespected in a relationship. 😠😠😠





MaKhumalo

When love finds you unexpectedly😍





White chick

What's too difficult to remember is so easy to forget...





Jennii

I carry my pink anxiety pills around with me EVERYWHERE even though I haven't taken them for weeks (I'm on separate chronic meds for my anxiety though).





pound cake

I am a work in PROGRESS. But I will be successful in life!





pEaRsOn

When your friend is more excited than you are when you succeed, that friend is for keeps😀 #blessed





babesweAcademics

We need to check up on our friends, the exam season is a lot. 





Sam

Why doesn't  Unorthodox have DMs ?  I'd love to slide into some  people's DMs and have private chats.





Jennii

I am so demotivated to finish my honour's degree. I have to submit my thesis end November, and I'm far from done. And I'm stuck with this huge assignment, like I don't know how to finish it. At all. Never been so close to "opskop", just quitting. :/





Bended Knee

Feeling so depressed today. I always feel like this when I have too much time on my hands😟😟





DRUNK

Learn to accept compliments and not put yourself down when you're given them. People speak truth 👌





Sam

In desperate need of a cuddle buddy. I just want to be held throughout the night.  Anyone in stellies?





athi

I really want a fuck buddy, just a person to shag with and they will be my bestfriend and NOT girlfriend. I know many people want to fuck, but are scared to be called hoes and so on. Girls in Stellenbosch please realise your sexual nature and feed it.🍆🍑





James Bond

Like a skyscraper I will forever rise and stand tall. [PULL STOP]





DRUNK

I make everyone get tested for std before getting involved. Even "virgins" lol😂





James Bond

When you're done studying and there is nothing left to do. Only problem is that there are still days before your exam. MXM!😞😒😒 





Stephanie

I HATE THE UNISEX BATHROOMS IN CAPE TOWN! everytime I am dying for a wee, I end up sitting in someone's man pee😤😭😭😭😭





burger king

Dear life I can't wait for you to end





PoliNeer

On top of that, our society just makes it super hard to accept yourself. Kubi macala bantase





PoliNeer

Its so depressing to have to reject your true self because of religion. I see myself with a man, not a woman, but ke...*sigh*





Van Dyk

I thought I found my soulmate, and then, there was a break up😒😒 love is stupid and inconvenient 





Kenya

I'm so confused right now. At the beginning of the year I approached this guy I passionately fell in love with. I only said hi and from then we started chatting. Recently he asked for my number and has visited me like two times. After the second visit, I thought we were cool because we had a pretty good time. Nothing grown up...just two people enjoying each other's company. I honestly saw hope for us the way we were vibing and just pushing interest.  Then bam! He posts a picture with a girl! In less than an hour he removes it. Then to make things worse he ignores me. It's been 2 days but these have been the longest two days of my entire life. I don't know if I'm being petty or stupid but I need help. Do I move on from this guy or do I ask him what the deal is between us? I hate inbetweens and the last thing I need is someone taking me for a ride.





crybaby

I wish my life were as perfect as my Facebook page makes it seem





White chick

I've had a really hectic life. I choose to be kind to myself. I choose to not feel guilty for doing the things that genuinely make me happy. This life we live is too short lived. I want to enjoy every moment. I want to be present in every moment. 





A-

I keep fantasizing about having sex with a friend of mine.We have been friends for a long time and I don't want to make things awkward by telling her this. She's in a heterosexual relationship and she doesn't know I'm "fluid". I've also never been with a girl so it's awfully confusing wanting her when I don't even know if I'd want an actual relationship with her. 





Jennii

Exam Diary: Munchies are the worst. What's your fav study snack?





Jennii

My trip to Mauritius with my boyfriend just got a twist... He invited his mother along. Not sure how I feel about that. 😐





Junior

Oh my gosh! I went to my first gay club last night and it was LIT🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥





Charlie's Angel

I think my boyfriend is cheating on me...oh hell no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!😤





AK47

never thought i would be where i am today. Things have really changed. It's like my whole life has been recreated. Guess change is a thing you can always count on in life...





CONFIDENT

This relationship I'm in gives me such anxiety. I literally wait for the next disappointment; next heartbreak; next fight...Thing is it always comes. We haven't even been dating for that long. I knew he was trouble the first time he let me down, but I ignored all the signs...😭😭





Jennii

Found this quote: "OK, so you're an optimist with depressive tendencies." So me.





D'Angelo

Reading these posts, one thing is clear: when you lack standards, you allow people to treat you like a piece of shit. #The end #Thank me later





Trevor

Really love this dude. We recently met. I mean he's been reaching out to me, plans our dates and I agree to it. Stupid me I always cancel an hour or so after the arrangement. Thing is I'm really scared to be committed to him due to expectations and I care more about what other people will say when they see us together. Something is wrong with me.





Trevor

My friend and I have sex almost every week. In the process fell in love with him. Well told him this over the phone and reponded by saying he feels the same but we can't date coz it'll ruin our friendship.. Like I don't understand what's up between the two us... 





Jennii

Exam Diary: Today, a girl in my exam venue wore fluffy pink slip-slops that looked like slippers. Or was it slippers...?





Jennii

Great news regarding my relationship: My boyfriend is taking this Friday off and in December we're going to Mauritius!! 😃





Jennii

Great news regarding my relationship: My boyfriend is taking this Friday off and in December we're going to Mauritius!! 😃





Innocent

Someone's post just made me wonder whether I give up on relationships too soon or nah. I have a question and would really appreciate your responses: Why did your last relationship fail? __just curious to know..





Hide and seek

I hate it when a new partner or crush doesn't respond to my texts. My first thought and fear is that I'm being ghosted😣





CONFIDENT

Does one give up on a dysfunctional relationship or stay and fight in hopes that it will get better? 😪😣😣😣





2Choch

Exam are here 😢 I'm already disappointed in my marks 😅





sim

It's been a year since I got infected with HIV, I was just devastated. It been a rough couple of months but now when I look back, I know I'm stronger now. This is for everyone out there, stay strong and have people you can talk to and trust. Life doesn't end after that!





Hope

What's a shallow reason you've rejected someone?😏